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Wednesday, 8 December 2021

Being Closer to Nature

   Being Closer to Nature



I think that one thing that I love about home schooling is the ability to get closer to nature and to chose what items I use to teach my children and where I buy them from.


One thing that I have always done with my children is to teach them that second-hand is OK to buy despite Covid 19.


I was not brought up to use second-hand and was told to always buy new, but now that I am a parent I am happy to teach.


Reduce

Reuse

Recycle

Upcycle


is the new way to live life.


So one thing that I am looking at doing is to keep some of the things that I teach seasonal and to be more closer to nature and use what we have around use to learn who to live life to the full.


This year we were not really able to do any foraging like we have in the past, so I am going to use the items that I already have around the house and have not done any thing with yet.


What we will do is make then in to gifts for our family and friends and also to decorate the house with.


So please follow us during our gift making session over the next few day(s)

Saturday, 9 October 2021

October 2021 Nest Egg Ideas, should I have for the future?

 October 2021 Nest Egg Ideas, should I have for the future?


This is a question at I often ask me self and one that every month I try to think about.

You can not go a day without hearing something about saving and investments.

Most of the time adverts are about death and life after death, for your family and loved ones.

They are about planning for your referment and also your funeral.

For me personal may saving and investment adverts never seam to be about the now.

When Covid 19 hit everyone was effect in one way or another.

In many ways those with saving and investments that could not be easy accessed or liquidated into cash I believe struggled the most.

It was these people who may have had to have made the decision about keeping their savings and investments and not looking at claiming government aid or seeing if they could "cash out" so they could.

This was due to the basic rule that if you had savings/investments over £6,000 you could not claim benefits from the government during lock down.

What a believe is that a lot of people forget about the now!

Yes in the past I did look at the future, I looked a ISA's, Help to buy my first home property schemes, yet they all seamed to have a lot of red tape wrapped around them.

So for me they where like the perfect Christmas gift, but it was like playing the "Chocolate game to get it"

Now the chocolate game for those who do not know what it is is this.


You have a block of chocolate wrapped up on a table.

To get to it you need to roll a six on a die.

You them need to put on a hat

Put on a scarf

Put on a pair of gloves

You them must run/walk over to the table that is about 3 feet away froj you.

You then must use the knife and folk to open the warped up chocolate with.

In the mean time everyone else's who is playing the game, can take it in turns to roll a six on the die too.

If they roll a six you must hand over every thing to them so that they can try to open the chocolate , you have to go back and start all over again.

Once the cholate is opened you are only allowed to eat one piece at a time, in full.

I have played this game may times ion my childhood, the winner is the one who gets to eat the last piece of chocolate and they won a full bar.

So in many ways it paid to not get a six and to let everyone else do all of the hard work for you.

Another game was a flour hill with a chocolate on top.  For this one you had to make sure that the chocolate ever fell, if it did you have to eat it.  So a bit like life, being a house of cards so to speak.

So one thing that I posted "gear change." was making sure that before anything else's that maybe you look at your budget first.

I try to do this once a month, and then if you have time look at how to save money, cut bill costs, spending costs and then maybe savings and investments.

One website that I do use and have found to be helpful is I have listed below along with some others.






Good luck.





Tuesday, 14 September 2021

September 2021 Back at school

Now that everyone should have returned to full time education what will happen?

What I have found myself is that everything seams to be going backwards, yet if we stepped into a time machine all I can see is one of two things happening.


This is why I think that films about the future and infection became so popular over the last year.


Yet the one thing that I always think about is "The Time Machine "By H.G. Wells" and the words "it's all clear."

https://youtu.be/4Nf7EjXBSqA


https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/54083859-the-time-machine-illustrated


https://www.sparknotes.com/lit/timemachine/summary/


Although I have never read the book I did see both movies.

The Time Machine is a 2002 American science fiction film loosely adapted from the 1895 novel of the same name by H. G. Wells and the screenplay of the 1960 film of the same name by David Duncan.

This book talks about the end of the world due to man reaching to far to touch the stars.  Then in the future only two species of man left 


Eloi 

One that lives above in the sun and eats, drinks, plays all day.


Morlocks

One below that works, designs, plans and cares for those above.  Hides in the shadow and then when they need to feed on those above to survive.

They do this by using a noise that makes the Eloi to the onw basic thing that every thing thig will do, Flight or Fight.

So what the noises triggers is the flight instinct that makes the Elio hide under ground like that would have been taught to do centuries before in times of danger.

For centuries we have been taught this in may ways shapes and forms the Flight or Fight way of life and in some case we have been forced into doing one or another even if we do not wish to do so.


Flight or Flight.

The fight or flight response is a physiological response to a stimulus which our bodies consider dangerous or life-threatening. This response—also called the acute stress response—is familiar to most people as the intense feeling of anxiety, shaking, and fear that can occur when our bodies prepare for a possible emergency.


Although both genetical come from the same species homer apian they are nothing a like to to centuries of evolution and time.

So in many ways have become to separate species all together and bother dependant on each other and living a symbiotic relationship.

Symbiotic relationship 

Symbiosis is a function of nature that encourages the flourishing of all life on Earth, enabling each party to sustain its own life and continue the legacy of their species through a special form of interaction. Some symbiotic relationships are only really beneficial to one party, but generally symbiosis will be mutually beneficial.

In the movies

In both films the interpretation of the movie is different yet the story line is the same.  With a traveller from a different time coming teaching the Eloi that to live a different way of life that they must fight for it and want to learn to change from in way being children into adults and learning to take care of themselves.

"Not to be afraid of the dark, to change and adapted."

Yet in the more modern movie (2002)  the Elio appear to be more independent and know what it is going on and except their way of life and that none are likely to live very long.  They even appear to know basic literature, how to gown food, how to keep warm and stay safe at night.

He also never goes back in time. and resets up the ability to tech again with what is left of modern technology; called the Vox System.

https://youtu.be/-XMaEfJOGJg

In the 1960, they have talking rings, books that have turned to dust, food and clothing, no knowledge of fire and know that at night they must stay indoors and not go outside.

In the end he goes back in time and picks up three book to take with him to help build and change the future.

https://youtu.be/AKP-WkcDT5s


One should be asking themselves do we not already live this way?



Saturday, 21 August 2021

When will you start doing your shopping for the Festive Holiday Season?

  When will you start doing your shopping for the Festive Holiday Season?

With summer almost over and Covid still on the rise, how many of us are now turning our attentions to shopping for the festive Holiday Season?



Before we all know it the festive adverts will be on our TV screens and we will all want to be knowing what top Christmas number one song will be for 2021.



The radio will be playing "Feed the World" and "It's Christmas!" about every 30 minuets.



IF we are lucky every wher will have their annual Christmas lights switch on and we will all be buying Mince Pies and bad woolly jumpers for men we know to wear.



So during all of this when will we look at doing our shopping ans most of all where?


Tuesday, 25 May 2021

Alice in Wonderland Down the Rabbit hole. By Lewis Carroll

 

Alice in Wonderland Down the Rabbit hole. By Lewis Carroll


Chapter I: Down the Rabbit-Hole - Alice-in-Wonderland.net



it is the 24th May 2021 and once again I have had a fight with my ex. It always seam that when people fight they always seam to fight about about the same things.


Death and Taxes

Family and Friends

Property and money


Where should we go on holiday this year? Should we take the kids? Should we kennel the dog? Should we get some to house sit?


Over the last almost two years the world that we once knew is no more.


Ever since I was young I have wanted to be self-employed and run my own business I am now almost 40 and I should may be look at making a B-movie or sitcom of how many times I have failed.


Also I know is that I can not take one more shitty course on how to become self employed where some mild-aged person stands in front of a slid show.


Showing you that if you do A, B, C then you will get to D and be a millionaire with in three years.


So what do I do?


All I know it that I have had 101 and Jobs since leaving high school and now I am a full time mother to three child.


Who love to say “I hate you mum!”


So what so I do?


How do I move forward with out having to take 10 steps back and going down the “Rabbit Hole” like am “Alice in Wonderland.?” By Lewis Carroll alice in wonderland - Bing


Wednesday, 6 January 2021

AgeUK

 https://www.ageuk.org.uk/


I have pout the link to AgeUK on my blog to help and surport people during Covid 19.  One thing that I will recomend in to sue other websites too.

Also go compare websites when you are shopping atound for price comparison websites,  I have found that at times AgeUK can recomend companies that are not always the most cost effective and customer friendly.

So make sure that you take the time to do some consider your options before signing any contracts.

Tuesday, 5 January 2021

Moving with the times 2021

 Moving with the times 2021

5th January 2021


Today was the first day for many to home school their little ones, with the support of your child school being rolled out again on line.


What I have found is who challenging on line leaning will be especially with limited access to technology, the government seam to think that every home is equipment with the up to date technical equipment like laptops, iPhones, iPads and unlimited internet data.


I have 3 children and one very old laptop that I love due to having everything I need I only wish I had three of them.


Looking at new laptops nothing out their come close to mine when it come to storage USB ports and disk drive.


All new one seam to have less storage, no disk dive and fewer USB ports.


So I am back to square one with knowing what to buy and how to move with the times when all of my children games are in disk formate.


I personal do not want my children to be downloading any thing off line and why should I pay to download anything when I already have it to hand?


I really need help with this and would love to hear other parents think.

Friday, 1 January 2021

2021 Time To Grow

 2021 Time To Grow 


https://www.suttons.co.uk/vegetable-seeds/when-to-sow-vegetables


Now that the whole world it still working with Covid 19, maybe now would be the time to think about starting new and looking at growing your own Fruit and Vegeables even if it is just a few herbs on you kitchen window in an empty plastic milk carton.

Wednesday, 30 December 2020

UPDATING

 I am up dating this blog I have not been on here for a while so efvery thing is a little out dated.  I aim to get it upto date ASAP.


My main focus for 2021 is to include information on her about how to SHOP SMART!.


This blog will also contain links to my other blogs that will contain tips and links to help all my readers to achive this.


IN 2021 I would ;love it if everyone could 

Reduce thier carbon foot print

Reduce, Reuse and Recycle

To surport small loacl business

To surport loacl charities 

To surport their family, friends and comunity more

To be able to move forward in life and achive one Dream 


All of these things can be achived and they start with one person.

That person is I.

IN 2021 I would ;love it if everyone could 

I can Reduce thier carbon foot print

I can Reduce, Reuse and Recycle

I can Surport small loacl business

I can Surport loacl charities 

I can Surport their family, friends and comunity more

I can Move forward in life and achive one Dream


So welcome to 2021 and the start of your NEW LIFE!

Shopping in 2021 Time to Change!

 

Shopping in 2021 Time to Change!


Now that 2021is almost upon on up I am using this time to “SHOP SMART” and to look at the ways that I have shopped in the past and how I can change my shopping habits in 2021.


During 2020 everyone had to take this time to STOP and THINK! About a number of things that they do in their lives and now to change the way that live.


One of those ways was by SHOPPING SMART!


So for 2021 I am going to aim to continue to do this and will blog about it and share links on ways that way can all SHOP SMART.

Thursday, 26 November 2020

Winter rising the gardening

  Winter rising the gardening


One of the thing that I still have not done yet this year is to winter rising garden and to plant my bulbs for next year. I always keep saying tomorrow and then it rains or the boys need me.


So my aim is to wineries the garden by 1st December this year and to make sure that I am ready for next year to start all over again.

Wednesday, 18 November 2020

Wednesday 18th November 2020

 Wednesday 18th November 2020



I can not believe that we are drawing so close to the end of an other year and the one thing that I can think of is how lucky that I am to still be alive and to be able to watch my children grow each day.



The hardest job I have had to do is to not just take care of myslef because no one else will do that for you, but to take care of my family.

I have used this time to go back to the drawing board and to work on my future goals and who I can hopefully move forward in 2021 and how my children will also.

One of the main things that I have done is go back to basics and I have done this by taking the time to draw up a budget plan and to try and average out my incomings and outgoings over the last 6 months so that I can start planing for the future.

I will add a budget plan link to this blog, if I have not already added one.

Tuesday, 27 October 2020

Feeding the futre 2020

 https://savings4savvymums.co.uk/feeding-family-four-2-50-day/

Once again child poverty is on the the new and how parents are unable to feed their children and them selves.

With so many family services clothing and Covid 19 on the rise it is not like you can even knock a friends or familys door for something like a cup of suguar.

One thing that I belive need to be done is that people need to clearly know how much their income and exspences are so that they can cleary budget them selves.

With winter just around the corner more of use will be spending money on heating our homes and lighting, not just food and other key itmes or bills.

Many people today are also forced into the rental market and are paying more in rent than what you would for a morgage.

I am still a stong beliver that everyine with children under 5 should be given healthy start vouchers.

https://www.gov.uk/healthy-start

You can also look at applying for the Big Diffrent Schem.

https://bigdiff.co.uk/login.php

I also belive that any child of school age under the age of Seven should be given a free school meal, if the school is closed then that should still continue. I belive that every child can calim this up unil the end of Year 2 at school.

https://www.gov.uk/apply-free-school-meals

https://www.gov.uk/types-of-school


Their is also pupil premium.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/pupil-premium/pupil-premium

I have include a budget sheet with this link.

https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en/tools/budget-planner

Tuesday, 15 September 2020

keep things in order

 Keeping thing in ored is not one of hte things that I am good at.  It is one of the reasons why I have so many sites on socail media to help deal with my split personality buease you never kjnow who you will be talking to, orwhat thought and feeling will cone out of my head.


If I had enough money I woiud have a big enought place to live where all of my persojalitys could be locked beinged a door.

Instead of being cluttered in one room.


I need to organise them and try to get rid of the ones that are holding me back.


I just hate not being able to breath,

Saturday, 14 March 2020

Thinking Time for Change "SHOPPING SMART"

14th March 2020 “SHOPPING SMART!”

Before anyone one goes out and starts buying any thing next week, maybe this weekend is the time to look a “SHOPPING SMART.” Take some time over the next 72 hours to clean your home and pull out everything that you have in your kitchen and bathroom; even check the attic or outbuildings.

How may of use will find food and other sinlessly supplies that we have forgotten about?

Also take this time to have a “CLEAN UP AND CLEAR OUT.” so that you know what it is that you really NEED.

Because at the moment it is TIME that is going to effect everyone in the long run and their are other things that I believe that people should be doing other that “PANIC BUYING” items that they think that they may need.

At the moment no one really knows what is going to happen in the next 3sec. 3min, 3hours, 3days, 3weeks, 3months, or 3 years.

To me 3 is the magic number. So proving you have three of everything that you may NEED, then it is a start.

  • It is the time that it takes of most products that we need to last. (food, warmth, shelver)
  • It is the length of time that it can can for something do be achieved or completed.(food, warmth, shelver)
  • It is usually the amount of time someone may have to have suitable amount of, food, warmth and shelter.
  • It it probably about the amount that people have to be financial secure and get (food, warmth, shelver)
  • It is usually the length of time one can aim to stay healthy, even if they are only living on baked beans. (food, warmth, shelver)

It is these 3 key things that everyone needs on a daily basis to stay health in mind, body and spirit.
(food, warmth, shelver)

So take some time to sit down over the next 72 hours and see what it is you need and then think of the needs of those around you.

Your family
Your Friends
Your Work Colleges
Your neighbours
Your local Community
Your Regional Community
Your National Community
Your Country.

Beacuse if you can not provide these three essential things for you self first in order to stay fit and well (food, warmth, shelver)

How are you going to provide then to other people.

So look at shopping smart because if we do not then what is to say the Government will not start steeping in and doing that for us.

I for one do not want that two happen, this should be a last resort.

That way when you do your shopping you know that you only need to buy one or up to three of something that you really need.

I always look at this way “ONE MEANS NONE.”



Thursday, 23 January 2020

Thinking Time for Change Reward chart idea

Please follow the link listed below.  IT SHOWS AN IDEAR FOR HOW YOUR COULD MAKE A REWARD CHART FRO YOUR CHILDREN.

THIS IS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN DO WITH CHILDREN UP UNTIL ABOUT THE AGE OF 15 I WOULD SAID BEFORE POKET MONEY SEAMS TO BE WHAT TEENAGERS ARE INTRESTE IN.

SO PLEASE VIEW THIS LINK AND SEE IF IT CAN HELP YOU REWARD YOUR LITTLE ONES IN A POSITAVE WAY.

YOU COILD MAYBE GET YOU LITTLE ONES TO HELP YOU MAKE THE REWARD CHART AND PLAN THE TRIP TOO.

https://youtu.be/Ngy3FifSpIw

Wednesday, 1 January 2020

Thinking Time for Change Make Do and Mend 2020

Make Do and Mend in 2020.

Now that we are in 2020 I think that it is time to STOP and THINK and learn to “Make do and Mend.”

For years even in my own childhood we seam to have become a culture and society of

Use once and throw away.”
If it breaks buy a new one.”
It is cheep to buy a new one than to fix the old.”
I have not got time.”


These are thing that I have heard my children say time and time again and they have not even reached their teens. Already my children are being influenced by the media and how easy it seams to replay things, things that can not be replayed so easy are the things that we need.

When we think about the things that we need we think of things like.

Food.
Warmth.
Shelter.
Money.
Employment.
Entertainment.

Not always in that order.

We do not seam to think about things like.

Oxygen
Water
Food
Clothing
Global Warming
The Ozone Layer
Fossil Fuels
Animal/Plant Welfare
Human Rights
Education
Health and Well-being
The Economy

Which are also important things to think about too.

Now that we have reached 2020. it seams that we are now come full circle when we start thinking about our lifestyle and how we live our lives and teat the world that we live in.

A lot of this is to do with the media and how the media influences us on a daily bases.

Yet the one thing that I think people tend to for get is the number 1.

When I say the number 1 I mean you, you and who you choose to live your life and how your life lives you.

Every one hows the saying do you “live to work?” to “Work to live?”

This is only something that you know and about how you chose or try to live your life.

It is easy to think about other things in life when your own personal life is how you chose to live it. Whoever went it comes to living some times it feels like that is all that you are trying to do.

Live.

So what can you do?

I always think about Alice in Wonderland when she says. “I always try to achieve 6 impossible things before breakfast.”

By Lewis Carroll.

Now the things that Alice try to achieve are strange and rally make no sense at already like “Why is a Raven like a writing desk?”


Now if you look at the 6 impossible things more closely could you apply any of them to your every day life?

1. There's a potion that can make you shrink.
2. And
a cake that can make you grow.
3. Animals can talk.
4. 
Cats can disappear.
5. There is a place called
Wonderland.
6. I can slay
the Jabberwocky.

Now I would not want any one to think or 6 impossible things that that could do before breakfast but 1. 1 thing that you may be able to do every day.

Now everyone makes New Years Resolutions, BUT who sticks to the?

Some of use also focus on Lent and chose those 40 days and 40 nights to try and make a difference to our lives or give up something.

At lost of people seam to go though what I would like to call FADS or are they really “Life Style Changes.” Do they really make a difference to our own personal lives or other peoples?

One thing that a lot of people have been fortuning on is the “War in plastic” in 2019, by not using single use plastic items.

Will you continue to do this in 2020 and what else will you try?

The other thing is that people have become more paperless and are more dependent on receiving things using IT which means more online date is required and internet speed with 5G planed for 2020 in most places.

Question are we not just trying to reinvent the wheel and in time will we go back to pen and ink when the world can no only support IT or provided us with what we need to life our ever increasing “Buy now worry later.” Life styles?

When we buy any new technology what effect dose a new mobile phone, Laptop or IPAD…. Have no our health and the world health?

One major worry is the worry to our health with regards to poor eyesight due to blue screens and causing cancer and other long life health problems?

So what is this currently add to my blog all about?


What do I mean buy “Make do and mend.”

What I mean is that maybe it is time to STOP and think! Before we go out and start buying the latest FAD until really need something. Also that it might be time to learn a new skill or should I say an old one.

With so many skills being lost include the ability to read and write due to IT and the ability to buy almost any thing. Then maybe it is time to learn something new that could help you in the future and become independent.

I am not talking about things like learning a new language, which is a possibly I am talking about the basics like.

Life skill.
Learning to budget
Basic reading and writing.
Basic Cooking Skills
Learning to sew
Learning to Knit or Croquet
The art of conversation and basic manors

I feel that at time that some of the basic things in makes use human are lost like being able to communicate with each other without technology to do so even with our own children.

Now that it is 2020 a lot of educational establishments will be sending out information about up and come course that they will be running some of these may be free to attend so it might be worth looking at what is on offer and possible attending if you have the spare time to do so.

Another way is to use the public library and read and book to learn something new.

You could also obtain sometime online and possible use how to advice or you tube to help you and learning too.

Make Do and Mend” in 2020.

Apart from my blogs I also have a few Facebook pages and groups that I manage that I try to post to with local training and information.

I have include the links below that may interest you.

So why not today think of one Possible thing that you could do in 2020 to “Make Do and Mend” in you life of 2020.




I HAVE ALSO INCLUED SOME LINKS TO SOME FACEBOOK PAGE(S)/GROUP(S) THAT I RUN THAT YOU MIGHT FIND OF INTEREST. 

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